Ins and Outs for 2024

IN’S:

Photography by Tyler Boye Photography

• Large flower arrangements/dramatic aisle florals

  • Large flower arrangements and dramatic aisle florals add a touch of elegance and grandeur to weddings, creating captivating visual focal points. They provide a picturesque backdrop for ceremonies and photographs while infusing the space with a sense of abundance.

• String Quartets

  • String quartets bring elegance and sophistication to weddings, enhancing the ambiance with their beautiful musical accompaniment. Their melodic harmonies create key moments for the couple and guests to enjoy, enriching the overall atmosphere of joy and celebration.

• Unplugged Ceremony

  • Unplugged ceremonies offer an intimate atmosphere for weddings, allowing guests to fully immerse themselves in the moment without distractions. By encouraging guests to disconnect from their devices, couples create a deeper connection with their loved ones as they witness and participate in the ceremony.

• Live Entertainment

  • Live bands infuse weddings with vibrant energy and excitement, elevating the reception and creating unforgettable moments for the couple and guests. Their dynamic performances engage guests and encourage them to dance and celebrate, fostering a sense of unity throughout the event.

• Multi-Day Weddings

  • Multi-day weddings cater to various preferences, ensuring every guest feels welcomed and appreciated. The extended timeline allows couples to treasure each moment and cultivate enduring memories that will be cherished by all guests.

• Textured Linens

  • Textured linens not only elevate the overall aesthetic but also provide an opportunity to infuse personality and style into every aspect of the celebration. Whether it's through intricate patterns, rich fabrics, or subtle embellishments, textured linens can create a unique ambiance that enhances the beauty of the venue.

• Hiring a Wedding Content Creator

  • These experts adeptly capture the essence of the couple's love story, providing enduring memories in the form of captivating photos, videos, and narratives. With their expertise, couples can alleviate stress and ensure that every precious moment is documented with creativity and care, allowing them to relive the magic of their wedding for years to come.

Photo by Bianca Tang Photography

• Drones

  • Drones offer unique vantage points and stunning aerial perspectives that traditional photography and videography simply can't match. With expert piloting, they capture breathtaking aerial footage of your venue, ceremony, and surroundings, adding a dynamic and cinematic dimension to your wedding memories.

• Dramatic Ceiling Moments

  • Ornate chandeliers, intricate moldings, and soaring heights create a visually stunning backdrop for ceremonies, receptions, and photographs, enhancing the overall atmosphere of romance and elegance. Dramatic ceilings also provide endless possibilities for personalization, allowing couples to complement their chosen theme or style with the architectural features of the venue.

• Interactive Seating Charts

  • These interactive features not only provide guests with a memorable and enjoyable experience but also facilitate smoother navigation and organization during the event. Interactive seating charts can reflect the couple's personality, theme, or interests, creating a cohesive and immersive atmosphere for guests to enjoy.

OUT’S:

• Neon signs

  • Their bright and bold presence may distract from the elegance and sophistication that couples aim to achieve on their special day. Depending on the design and placement, neon signs may not always photograph well, leading to visual inconsistencies in wedding documentation.

• Baby's breath/dainty flowers

  • Their small size and delicate nature can get lost in larger venues or fail to make a significant impact in outdoor settings where they may be overshadowed by the surrounding landscape. Using baby's breath or dainty flowers as the main floral element may result in a lack of visual interest or depth in the overall decor.

• Large wedding parties

  • Large wedding parties can become unwieldy to manage, leading to logistical issues and added stress for the couple and their attendants. Additionally, the focus on a large group of attendants can shift attention away from the couple, diluting the intimacy of the ceremony and reception.

• Kids attending

  • Some wedding venues may not be child-friendly, with hazards such as stairs, delicate decor, or restricted areas posing safety concerns. Overall, while children are cherished members of families, their presence at weddings can sometimes create practical challenges that couples may prefer to avoid.

• Formal sendoff

• Formal sendoffs can disrupt the flow of the event, pulling guests away from the enjoyment of the festivities to participate in a staged farewell. These scripted and often choreographed moments can feel forced and artificial, detracting from the genuine emotions and spontaneity of the day.

• Sweetheart tables

• This arrangement can disturb the natural flow of conversation and camaraderie that is central to a joyous wedding celebration. Additionally, sweetheart tables may create logistical challenges for event coordination and seating arrangements, potentially causing confusion or discomfort among guests.

• Cake cutting

• Traditional cake cutting may feel outdated or forced and some couples choose to forgo this tradition in favor of a more personalized wedding experience. With the rising trend of personalized weddings, some couples may feel that the cake cutting tradition does not reflect their unique personalities or love story. 

• Wedding party formal introductions

• Formal introductions may prolong the formalities of the reception, delaying the start of dinner or dancing and potentially diminishing the overall enjoyment for guests. Instead of rigid formalities, couples may opt for more relaxed and informal entrances, allowing the wedding party to mingle and engage with guests in a more natural and genuine manner. Although your wedding party is an important part of the day, your wedding should be about YOU.

• Traditional menus

• Traditional menus can be limiting and uninspired choices for weddings, failing to reflect the unique tastes and preferences of the couple and their guests. Opting for more innovative and customizable menu options allows couples to create a memorable culinary experience that truly reflects their individuality and sets their wedding apart.

• Long speeches

• Long speeches at weddings can detract from the overall enjoyment of the event for both the couple and their guests. While heartfelt and meaningful speeches are an integral part of wedding celebrations, excessively long speeches can lead to fatigue and boredom among attendees. Guests may become restless and lose focus, diminishing the impact of the speeches and overshadowing other important moments of the day.

• Stressing about every detail (we’re here for that!)

• The biggest “out” of them all! Entrusting Lavish Haus with the details of your special day allows you to fully immerse yourself in the joyous celebration, ensuring a seamless and unforgettable experience for you and your loved ones.

Photography by Tyler Boye, Bianca Tang, Dearly Beloved, Brittany Boote, and Afrik Armando